Is the Hot Potatoe ruining your Relationship?

Relationships can be complicated at the best of times. Add in exhaustion, heightened emotions and adjusting to a new baby in the house and your primary relationship is going to face challenges. Who wakes up at night with the baby? Who makes dinner, does laundry, feeds the baby? How do you each still have time for personal interests and self care? There is a lot to negotiate and less time available. One thing to ask yourself is if there is a hot potatoe. A what? Remember the children’s game of passing an object quickly, pretending it was hot and not